| Location | Horsham |
| Age | 34 years |
| Cause of Death | Suicide |
| Date of Birth | 12/02/1962 |
| Date of Death | 13/01/1997 |
| Visitors | 3,760 since 13/01/2009 |
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Terry, my very special younger brother.
We were the 2 children from our mothers first marriage and that gave us a bond which was always special, throughout our childhood and into adulthood. When he got older all he wanted to do was drive trucks. As soon as he was old enough he passed his HGV test and off he went, driving uk and abroad! He loved it. Eventually he started his own haulage business and did very well but after he married and had children the job meant he was away from home for too long. So he sold his lorry and started his own taxi business in Horsham, run from his home. It was doing well, he had converted a minibus into a disabled vehicle so had 2 vehicle on the road.
But.. tragically and for a reason I will never know he took his life on the 13th January 1997!! Leaving behind 3 young boys and many many devastated people.
I will never get over this loss. I often think how he must have been feeling around that time and I had no idea. I was too busy with my own life and he was busy with his taxis. We did'nt take the time to get together.. I so wish I had.
Thank you to the many people who have lit candles and sent tributes. This site is just what I need, even though Terry has been gone 15 years it still hurts so much.
A ROSE FOR MY BROTHER
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Hiya Terry, wherever you are I hope you are okay! I miss you so much, I'd give anything to have you back here with us.. I love you and you will always be in my heart... I will NEVER forget you xxxxxxxxxxx
When you have a special bond
A love that is so rare
A life thats rich with so much love
Theres nothing to compare
And when that love is taken
Theres nothing we can do
So hold on to your memories
For they still love you too
That bond cannot be broken
Although we are apart
I love you still
And always will
Youll never leave my heart
My friends, please do not mourn for me
I’m still here, though you do not see.
I’m right by your side each night and day
and within your heart I long to stay.
My body is gone but I’m always near.
I’m everything you feel, see or hear.
My spirit is free, but I’ll never depart
as long as you keep me alive in your heart.
I’ll never wander out of your sight-
I’m the brightest star on a summer’s night.
I’ll never be beyond your reach-
I’m the warm moist sand when you’re at the beach.
I’m the colorful leaves when fall comes around
and the pure white snow that blankets the ground.
I’m the beautiful flowers of which you’re so fond,
The clear cool water in a quiet pond.
I’m the first bright blossom you’ll see in the spring,
The first warm raindrop that April will bring.
I’m the first ray of light when the sun starts to shine,
and you’ll see that the face in the moon shine is mine.
When you start thinking there’s no one to love you,
you can talk to through the Lord up above you.
I’ll whisper my answer through the leaves on the trees,
and you’ll feel my presence in the soft summer breeze.
I’m the hot salty tears that flow when you weep
and the beautiful dreams that come while you sleep.
I’m the smile you see on a baby’s face.
Just look for me friend, I’m every place!
Thinking of you so much today Terry, it's just another day like all the other days over the last 15 years, but the 13th January always hurts more.. just because it is the anniversary of the day you left us. I think about the reasons behind what you did and I'm sure if I knew what happened back then it would be easier to bear. Something terrible was said or done to you to make you take such drastic action.. it just was'nt like you.
I love you little brother and miss having you in my life xxx
If roses grow in heaven,
Lord Please pick one for me.
Place it in my Brother's hand
And tell him it's from me.
Tell him that I love him
And when he turns to smile,
Place a kiss upon his cheek
And hold him for a while.
Remembering him is easy,
I do it every day.
But there's an ache within my heart
That will never go away
We thought of you with love today
But that is nothing new.
We thought about you yesterday
And the days before that too.
We think of you in silence,
We often speak your name.
Now all we have are memories
And your picture in a frame.
Your memory is our keepsake
With which we'll never part.
God has you in His keeping
We have you in our heart.
I looked towards the clouds today
And for a moment saw your face.
I wondered just where you have gone
With hope it's a better place.
Did you show yourself to me today,
To tell me you're all right?
Or was it just a daydream
Playing tricks upon my sight?
We will always feel the void inside
Because you are not here.
But each new thought you send our way
Lets us know you're near.
So until our journey nears its end
And we hear the angels sing,
We'll face each new day as it comes
And live off the love you bring.
Morning uncle terry its been 15 years today since you passed cant believe its been that long i hope you have found peace at last you deserve too.
We miss you every day and you are and always will be in our hearts and our thoughts.
Love you forever xxxx
Rest Peacefully xxxx
Hi Terry, 15 years ago today you left us. I can't believe how quickly it has gone by! I still miss you so much. There are so many times I could do with one of our "chats".I will never forget you, sleep peacefully little brother. I love you xxxxx
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